How to Pick the Right Man / Woman

How to Pick the Right Man

How to pick the right man is a question that always enter on the mind of some ladies whether what is the best man to become a partner in life. Common now that the woman before they pick the right man, they examined it first rigidly before they do the decision whether the man that courts in them is the best man to become the father of their children (child) in the future.

There are many ways they used whether how to examine it but some might not enough and some might incorrect to screen the right man due to some tactics are failure and ineffective caused by improper uses and common might incorrect techniques used by some during screening of the right person.

Before we proceed to the tutorial and here are the reasons why we should examine rigidly the woman / man before we touched the responsibility to become a father /mother in the future.

1. Some people both man and woman had criminal instincts.

2. Not all people in the world had good heart but some are hypocrites, conqueror and more.

3. Some people are irresponsible; these types of people are just thinks their side and no care to the other side.

4. Thief

5. Liar

6. Boastful

7. Evil

These are some common people in the world and we should aware to these kinds of people. Below are some explanations why we should aware and do not engage in relations in them.

• The number one mentioned on the above are some people had criminal instincts and that was inevitable and the reality.

Some crimes are made by some people with criminal instincts and the criminal instincts people had criminal behavior and that was manifest how the way they act and deal with other people and you should examine it thoroughly especially if his groups engage with criminal activities.

• Not all people had good hearts but hypocrisy and many more.

Some does goodness to fellow human but for publicity and the primary reason of the act was for glorification purpose for their name shall be praise.

Remember: do not believe to the goodness of the other people who made publicly for their name shall be praise but believed to the goodness done by some through secretive manner due to manifestation those people had good heart and humble.

The type of people who does stealthy for other people are just after to do goodness without gaining credit from the other people who are third party other than to the people who done goodness of the person.

Almost people who do goodness publicly might have hypocrite behavior, conqueror and evil – minded – person. They done it for benefits in the future or by exchange for something therefore we cannot called it as goodness due to the real goodness has no benefits for the exchange of something either in the far future, in immediate or in the far future.

In this case, do not believed if the person glorifies himself that he / she a God – fearing – person. He is merciful, helps the poor, does these works and like these and more due to that is the symptoms of hypocrisy and the hypocrite is very dangerous.

That type of person smiles you when you come and that type of person downgrades your reputation in your back, in short, those types of people stab you in your back.

• The common people now are irresponsible

Some does boy friend /girl friend and does sexual intercourse in the first instance should not, if the woman was pregnant they both planned to abort it and threw on the garbage can and same manners of types of acts.

Some parents are irresponsible and sometimes the irresponsible was the husband and some the wife and some are both and that irresponsibility is the reason sometimes of separation.

Made a child / children without due preparation and the one that shall suffer in the future are the child / children and not them, so if you want to build a happy family, you should select the man / woman which is responsible.

• Thief and some do robbery

Sometimes the both parents do robbery and some does thief due to insufficiency in the things as instrument to survive in this world. In that case, we should understand them if they did it once but if does in many times as their livelihood that is something not right.

There are people does plunder especially to the people who sat in the position particular in the politics and some people who does plunder are popular people. Even they have their own money but still they did robbery or stole the money of the people who sojourn in that country some used their authority in government to steal the money of the people.

If you have planned to marry the person who is in the politic, that is the first ground as your bases before you marry that person. Might does something not right and hide in the public especially in you. We did not say those all politicians are plunderers.

• Try to catch if your boyfriend /girlfriend and the person who court in you are liar.

Some men courts women even though they have their own girlfriend and sometimes they have their own girlfriends. In short, the man who tries to court you wants to add you as his collection and same with woman who tries to court by you had boyfriends by denial that she had no boyfriend in order for her to add you as her collection. Collect and collect and then select, that was their principle.

That was formed of lie wherein they denied their currents partner in order for you to add as his / her boyfriend / girl friend. You should know how to catch whether if the person is liar or not due to the liar person is poisonous in the relationship.

• Constant proud is boast and if the person who always boast is boastful.

It is normal if we did accomplishment especially if we did which the others have no capacity to made it, we proud about it and that proud shall vanish little by little; if the person who vanish not his proud due to his accomplishment even though his accomplishment was already old due to time but still proud about it, that is the manifestation that person might boastful.

Boast might come from high personality that seems for the boastful person, the others have no capacity to do so in what to the boastful done and that accomplishment that he / she proud, thought that the boastful person is highest compare to the others due to the ability and skills of the boastful had.

Might with symptoms of rejection of the correction of others due to the boast may thinks that the correction might incorrect and his idea is awesome than to the others.

There are many evil right now in this age and some used the principle of "we are just human and prone from mistakes" to aggravate other people but they did it by intentional. You should know how to identify if the person is evil or not.

This article tells the signs about the behavior of human that might the reason why we should not engaged with that type of man / woman especially in how to get the good man / woman in this earth to become your partner and this article is useful for men as well those who wants to have the right partner in life in the future. This article is reversible for anyone.