What is Real True Love?

True love

The term true love was existed due to there was a fake love; very important to choose whether if the future partner posses this on the heart and the rigid inspection should execute properly due to if not may cause misjudgment to person who is kind. 

By the way; there is difference between charity and love? Might the love is a simple affection of every people in the world and the charity has gravity than love or just a simple synonym of love. Let us just assume that those two words have differences each other.

Sometimes if our observation is very keen, we can conclude those animals had love as well. Try to observe the birds on the nest; the mother bird feeds her young with worms in order her young to survive in this world. She has feeling of affection about her young; same with humans have feeling of affections.

Might the mother bird have affection with her young or love but we don’t have idea whether she has charity (just an assumption) What if the mother bird has 4 young birds for example. There was a forest — that forest has only one worm. The mother bird searches worms on the whole day but unfortunately she got only one and she is very hungry that time before she discovered the foods, due to almost a day flying, flying, searching of food for her young and for herself as well.

There was an instinct in the mother bird that she can sacrifice the one worm for her 4 young birds? Or after she got that one worm was immediately devoured it?  That only signifies that she can’t sacrifice for her young but let us just assume first that the mother bird has no idea that on the whole forest has only one worm and that forest is very broad.

After she’s searched and searched, the time has come that she needs to go back for her young even there was or there was no food. After she reached the nest, mother bird realized that her young are hungry and needs to find more worms for her young but it is already night. In this instance; she has felling of remorse after she realized that her young are hungry but she’s not and why she ate the one worm that should for her 4 young? Might not and the 4 young birds may eat on the next day. No one can prove that the bird has feeling of repentance as the mother bird as an example.

No man ever seen until now that there was mother bird that cut the one worm for her four young. But this idea and feeling of sacrifice is only present on the humans and the sacrifice is a form of charity maybe or might is a true love.

That feeling of love in her young is a true love due to there was no hypocrisy in the animals but the hypocrisy behaviour is only present on the humans. All the feelings of love both in the animals and humans are real but only the love those came from the mouth of humans might possibly not real therefore fake love.

The man said with woman "I love you" but the fact is not. There are two possibilities those loves which came from the mouth either real or not real. It became real if the mouth was triggered by the heart that in love with woman but is fake love where the word I love you which came from the heart with full of deception. 

Let us assume that your boyfriend’s loves you. But the animal like the example above has love also therefore if your boyfriend is just loves you but if he can’t sacrifice for you; your boyfriend is seems bird as an example above. But; if he can sacrifice for you might it is a form of deep love or might it is a true love (just an assumption) especially if your boyfriend / girlfriend never complaint about his / her sacrifice for you.

What is true love

What is true love? The answer regarding the question whether what is true love, is a love that does not complain therefore suffers long and below is the additional and are the manifestations of the true love.

1. Kind

2. Envies not

3. Not puffed up

4. Does not behave itself unseemly

5. Seeks not her own

6. Is not easily provoked

7. Thinks no evil

8. Rejoices not in iniquity

9. Rejoices in the truth

10. Bears all things

11. Believes all things

12. Hopes all things

13. Endures all things

This above lists was from the book of Apostle Paul on the chapter 13: 4 – 7 on the book of 1^st Corinthians on the New Testament on the King James Bible Clarified translation.

Below again is the near explanation to understand the possible interpretations of the above mentioned list.

• The true love is suffers long

If your boyfriend is willing to sacrifice and complains not about his predicament caused by you; your boyfriend has feeling of true love with you.

If the person who always critique your works and almost they observed if what you have done, how do you speech, how do you react especially if that person is a part of your family; the possible reason is that person might envy you, hates you and if that person is your boyfriend / girlfriend then that person was a liar due to the true love is suffers long. 

Can accept whether who you are; can accept even the man / woman has speaking disorder.

If suffers long: the envy, hates and same behaviors are present not on that person. Remember: there is true love for boyfriend and for girlfriend and the perfect true love is for all. Two types of true love: the perfect love which love the neighbor and love to the enemy and the imperfect love are for the family, boyfriend, and girlfriend and for the ordinary friends. 

The imperfect love has selection but to the perfect love has no selection. If we base into salvation if you do believe in God; the perfect love is the bases and not the imperfect love; the God is a perfect love and that love has no selection.

For example: the father loves his children but he does not love the other people therefore imperfect love.

Does not mean even though the true love is suffering long; it is necessary to tolerate the person who abused the patience to obtain the suffering long spirit which is the one ingredient of true love.

There is no place to the person who fooling us; the cover of the suffering long is refer to the toleration of misdeed caused by ignorance, acts without evil intent, cause by intimidation and more other than to the acts which has evil desire.

If our girlfriend if just fooling us or your boyfriend; there is no place for them to tolerate due to we are fools if we remains in their side but it is time to leave them.

• The true love is kind and not hypocrisy

There are verses on the bible that mentioned by Apostle Paul. According in him; even he has faith and that faith has capacity to remove the mountains due to faith, has gift of prophecy and more (1^st Corinthians 13:2) but no love still the Apostle Paul is useless and seems sounding brass or a tinkling cymbal on 13:1 same book on the above mentioned and added in his epistle on the chapter 13: 10 on the Romans book that the love is the fulfilling of the law.

 There is no hypocrisy in the person who is kind; all his / her behavior even for you is talkative, with annoying behavior and more but she / he just shows whether who they are; the big possible those people or person is not hypocrite and the hypocrite not has big tendency that those are kind.

Unlike to the person or to the people when they deals to the other people are perfects, no blemishes, very good, prudent but it is possible manifestation of hypocrisy but there is also possibility that person / people are real prudent and not hypocrites.

If your boyfriend even though was not hypocrite with you but in some people does hypocrisy; that is only the manifestation that your boyfriend is not kind and you can use this in the woman.

 If the person does hypocrisy then that person has no true love in general but has possible that has true love with you (imperfect love) When we say love in general: it refers in selecting not even to the enemies. If just in his / her partner might true love as well but imperfect love.

The rest manifestation of true love or sign of true love is needed not further explanation but it just needs a little comprehension.